“Com lubrificante e jeitinho não há buracos difíceis”

Existem muitos tabus sobre o sexo anal. Alguns pela má experiência, outros, é difícil entenderem porque raios alguém pode gostar de enfiar o pénis dentro de um buraco que foi feito exclusivamente para eliminar excrementos do nosso corpo. O facto é que o cu é uma parte valiosa do corpo que aprendemos a tirar proveito no sexo. Os homens deliram pelo sexo anal – inclusive os gays, que se divertem muito enrrabando-se uns aos outros, mas algumas mulheres deliram ao ser enrrabadas. A grande diferença é que os homens possuem a tal da “próstata”, que quando estimulada, dá muito prazer. As mulheres não – o que prova que o prazer vem única e exclusivamente do psicológico. Tenho percebido que ultimamente, o interesse das mulheres por essa prática tem aumentado, muito provavelmente porque o homem obriga.

Acho justo também que os homens testem a serem enrrabados para sentirem o que a mulher sente no sexo anal. Se o homem não aguentar ser enrrabado é melhor pensar bem na hora de pedir algo do tipo para a sua mulher. O fato é que, só se pode dizer se gosta ou não quando experimentar. Se em todo o caso estiverem interessados, aí vão algumas dicas pra facilitar o processo e torna-lo menos doloroso.

 PARA ELAS

- Esqueça os filmes pôrnos, onde as mulheres dão o cu como se fosse algo muito natural. não é.
-Se você ficar com vontade de eliminação de excrementos na hora H, tente ir ao banheiro antes para deixar o caminho livre, pode sempre tomar laxante.
-Eu sugiro tentar pelo método orgânico.
- É preciso que você esteja com muito tesão. Mas muito mesmo. Naquele nível em que já fizeram de tudo e o fogo ainda não foi embora.
- Antes de se aventurar com o pau do seu parceiro, treine primeiro com dedos. Peça para ele colocar um dedo quando estiver te chupando a cona. Quando estiver mais relaxada, deixe ele colocar mais fundo. Dê um tempo para o cu perceber que terá que fazer o movimento oposto daquele que têm feito a vida toda.
- Uma das posições ideais para iniciantes, é ela deitada de bruços na cama, só com um travesseiro por baixo do quadril para levantar um pouquinho. De ladinho também é recomendada. Só mude para uma posição mais elaborada quando já tiver muito confortável nas primeiras.
- Segure o pau na mão e o direcione para o buraco mágico. Quando estiver na posição certa, peça para ele ir colocando devagarzinho.
 - No começo, vai doer. Mas tudo pode ser controlado se você parar de mentalizar a dor. Pense em coisas safadas, coisas que te dêem tesão. É fato que o primeiro reflexo do nosso corpo é gritar para ele sair de você imediatamente, mas se você quer mesmo experimentar, vai ter que suportar por um tempinho essa dor inicial para aprender a transformá-la em prazer.
- Se não estiver gostando, sempre pode pedir para ele parar.
- Dar o cu exige inspiração. Se você nao está inspirada no dia, não faça só porque ele pediu. Levar no cu não é para ser dado como presente. Você dá quando bem entender. Sem pressão.

PARA ELES

- Tenha paciência na hora de propor essa prática. Muitas mulheres já tiveram experiências traumáticas, ou pelo menos já ouviram histórias bizarras a respeito. Seja cuidadoso e carinhoso.
- É preciso habilidade para executar a prática com mestria. Crie um clima antes e a deixe com muito tesão. Assim suas chances serão muito maiores.
- Se você tem nojo do cu e do que pode eventualmente sair no meio do processo, nem “se meta” nessa. A etiqueta diz: se viu ou sentiu alguma coisa, ignore e continue como se nada tivesse acontecido.
- Enquanto a penetra , faça o favor de continuar estimulando a mulher para ela abstrair um pouco da dor e continuar sentindo tesão. Beije as costas dela, pescoço, pegue nos seios, masturbe. Se vire nos trinta.
- Se ela pedir para parar, PARE. Ou vai correr o risco de nunca mais enrrabar.

Sex is something that's always a difficult topic when dating. There's no way around it, sex and dating are inextricably interconnected. Sex is a subject that is widely open for discussion regardless of religious belief or cultural values. Modern men and women often use sex as a test of compatibility because good sex is a sign of good chemistry and an important part of any healthy relationship.

Similar to the way in which endeavour to match their members based on similarities, you should also attempt to locate the ideal partner when it comes to sex. Many of us have certain sexual preferences so it helps to be able to share your preferences with like-minded people. If you are dating someone who has a much bigger sex drive than you, or vice versa, this will have substantial negative consequences for any long-term relationship.

The magnitude of being in a sexually compatible relationship should not be underestimated. A special connection can be lost easily if the right sexual chemistry is not established and maintained. This does not always have to represent the act of having sex per se, rather any kind of romance or close intimacy. Whether sex is important to you or not, your partner must feel the same way.

During the initial stages of dating someone, how often does sex occur? If a man is attracted to a woman he will certainly want to sleep with her. However, if you are genuinely hoping to establish a lasting bond it's imperative you don't have sex early on in the relationship. Let the desire and anticipation grow over time to allow your true feelings and emotions reach a heightened state. Unless your motives are purely based on a physical connection, never allow sex to complicate a relationship in its early stages.

In this day and age, there are plenty of online resources freely available catering for both casual relationships and serious relationships. Various websites provide platforms for men and women to find partners who share the same level of sexual requirement. So if you have not yet explored online options, there is a dating service in cyberspace that caters to just about any need or desire whether it be casual or long term.
The very first time a couple has sex can be truly wonderful when there's tremendous expectation and build up but will similarly turn out to be a complete catastrophe as a result of that same expectation and build up.

Usually it's the last mentioned. It requires time and energy to become familiar with the other person during sex and so reduce your anticipations and don't trust the standard of sex based on the first encounter. Elements will vary and become much better in time. Develop a certain amount of trust as well as reciprocal respect, the first time with each other might not be what you imagined, even so it can still be warm and rewarding all the same.
Some fundamental elements to consider:

• Avoid sleeping together on a first date.
• Never discuss sex during the first few dates.
• Avoid discuss previous sexual experiences.
• Never talk about the amount of people you have slept with.
• Physical attraction is an important element concerning the people you choose to date.
• Appearing sexy should not be mistaken as a sign of being easy.
• Kissing someone on the first date does not automatically mean sex should follow.
• Only have sex when both people feel completely comfortable.
• Sex always gets better, never make a determination on the first time.
• Don't feel pressured into having sex.

Some people meet their future partner whilst at High School or at college; others meet "the one" later in life. Generally speaking, if you meet your partner whilst quite young you will not have spent much time thinking about what really matters to you in a relationship. The older you get the more experience you have and thus you will have a clearer idea about what you do or don't want.

I happened to watch an episode of Millionaire Match the other day in which Patti asked a gentleman to list five qualities which he needed to see in a partner and which would be deal breakers if they were not present. He made his list, shared them with the audience and promptly picked a girl who clearly fell short of more than one of his deal breakers.

This gentleman is not alone in doing this type of thing. Many of us just want to be in a relationship so much that we overlook certain aspects of another person which are clearly on display. We say one thing and yet we do something which is entirely different. It's human nature to want to have a partner; we are not designed to remain alone. Never the less, it is vitally important that we take off our blinkers and approach the situation with care and thought.

It's well worth making your own personal list of five things which you are quite simply unwilling to compromise upon. Make that list, write it down and share it with your best friend. Ask them to keep an eye on your relationships and see from the outside that your deal breakers aren't overlooked by you in your desire to find your mate.

Logic and emotions do not always sing from the same hymn sheet. It is all too easy for you to become emotionally involved with someone even though your logical mind is telling you that you are falling into the same old trap one more time. You find yourself justifying why you are with him or her and overlooking those things which are really important to you and would inevitably come between you in the end. This is why it is a good idea to ask a friend to keep a logical, unemotional eye out, just to keep you on track.

Another thing that you can do is to spend a little time visualizing yourself with that perfect partner, the one who doesn't violate your five deal breakers. Imagine yourself meeting this person and the life you could have together. In this way you gain a feeling of positive expectation, and your mind becomes more open to finding the perfect relationship which will really work for you in the long term.

Every thought that you have is a form of energy which attracts what you are thinking about into your life. So don't waste your thoughts and energy on worries or the fear that you won't meet the right person. Instead, invest a little time in picturing yourself meeting your true soul mate and attracting them into your life.

Today, the art of pleasuring has really changed from what it used to be. Many men actually prefer oral sex than sex itself! Yes, this is an actual fact and you can only wonder how good it feels if men are starting to choose a blow job for sex. A blowjob is one of the most fantasized sexual activities. I can guarantee you that your partner is thinking about your lips and mouth sucking on him until he blows his load. Keep in mind that many women may believe that all it takes is to put it in your mouth, but it isn't that easy. There is actually an art involved. You really have to take your time and learn what he likes and dislikes and once you become a pro, you will have your man looking for you in a different way. I'd like to stress out the fact that some men really prefer oral sex in comparison to vaginal sex or hand masturbation. By now, I'm sure I don't have to tell you how important it is for you to know how to give great head.

The following are several tips that will leave your man wanting more:

Relax and Enjoy it! - This is probably one of those overlooked tips, but keep in mind that most of the pleasure of sexual activity comes from the mind. Therefore, if you relax and enjoy the process, your man will see that and I bet you he'll enjoy it much more. If your man feels that you are very tense and are in a position that you don't want to be, it can be quite a turn off for any man. If you change your mindset and think of this process as an love act or a gift to him for giving great sexual pleasure. But, this should be pretty easy if you really truly love him and want him to experience such an amazing sexual pleasure, then it should come pretty easy.

Don't be Afraid - Ask? - You're not going to be a pro overnight that's for sure and every man can be different, so you'll always have to tweak your "skills" or "technique" to match what he likes or what makes him most satisfied. You can learn all the basic techniques you want, but in the end you'll have to do some things more than others because he enjoys it more. I know you want to make him coming back for more, so why not make it the best experience ever? There is definitely no harm done in actually asking your man what he wants or prefers - ask him what feels best. For example, he may ask you to use a combo of your mouth, lips, hands, etc. Beginning the process by teasing him and using your hands is sometimes preferred by many men until he is almost fully "there" and then that is when you jump in and finish him off with your lips and mouth. You'll be amazed with his reaction. Another thing that you can try is to alternate between these using your mouth or hands or even try it at the same time. Another example you can try is to use your hands and lips together with the hands at the bottom of his shaft and your lips at the tip or the head, as some people call it, providing plenty of saliva for lubrication.

Wetness is always a good thing - Wetness is important for two reasons. You want to make sure that the area is very wet so that you can easily go in and out with your mouth. The other reason is that it makes the sensation 10 times better. Making sure that you keep your mouth very wet when giving a blow job or oral sex is definitely a must. It's not only about keeping your mouth very wet, but to make sure that his entire shaft is wet from the head of the penis to the base. To be honest, the sloppier you are, the better it will be for him. There is no need to be "neat" here. This next tip may sound awkward at first, but you won't believe how effective it is. If you keep a glass of water or any liquids by you before you actually give him a blow job will give him this amazing feeling. It may sound silly at first, but its like giving your mouth a head start and it will definitely surprise your man.

The use of teeth is definitely a NO NO - You can make something so good turn so bad in just seconds. You are in an area that is very sensitive and is one of the largest complaints; men have about receiving a blow job. You don't want your teeth scraping against his shaft - just as a rule of thumb, the fewer teeth you have involved, the better it'll feel. You might be surprised that this is a very common mistake that women make when giving oral sex. As mentioned before, your man's area is a very extremely sensitive part of his body and teeth scraping away are not the best feeling anyone would ever want to go through.

Another useful tip is to make sure you watch how much pressure you apply as well as the speed with which you suck or rub the penis. This is very dependent on your partner though as this is more a preference. Keep in mind, it doesn't hurt to ask! A little teasing has never hurt anyone and if you make him last a little bit longer, he'll appreciate you much more. Teasing cause also really increase his pleasure as he is about to climax. Try to aim for anything between 5 to 20 minutes.

Keep these tips in mind and remember to relax and enjoy it!

I can't stress enough that learning how to give oral sex is something every woman should know. Men simply love receiving blow jobs and when you know how to do it right, he'll return the favor. If you really enjoyed these tips, I want to recommend you to check out this guide on Giving Him Oral Sex.